Life With Sulis

And Now Back To Your Regularly Scheduled Program:
Life has just stepped up another notch. Getting ready to move and start a new job. Finding a sitter for the daytime. Dealing with the Arizona Unemployment office. Its all been fun fun fun. Hopefully it will all be over asap. And I can get back to my regularly scheduled life.

Digi started school and its alot more work then he was bargaining for. He has to write 2 small essays everday, and one large essay a week. He is really nervous and we have had a few little squirmishes on not wanting to do the work. But in the end it just came down to wanting to know he is doing all this work for a reason. Reminding him of his goals. Sometimes when things get tough we forget what it is we are doing all this hard work for. So I decided to make up a wish wall in our room for him. Something to remind him everyday what it is that he is working for.

Last night we had a good discussion and learned a little more about eachother and what we really wanted. It is wonderful to be able to talk to someone. To have productive discussions and planning meetings and know that that person will tell you when something is going wrong. Before it gets out of hand. I think this is the biggest thing in Digi's and my relationship that I love. I know he will say something to me if he thinks we are not going the right way. I know he will listen to me and trust me when I tell him we should do this or this. I also know he will not bury his head in the sand when problems do arise and will work just as hard as I to solve them.

When you look at your main relationship is it like that? Do you have a free flow of information and coopreration between the two of you? Do you work as a team or just two individuals? Do you know what your SO dreams, wants, needs, etc are? What have you done to help them get there? Are you a team player?

posted by digitalsulis @ 9:31 AM