Life With Sulis

Ola. Ladies and Gentleman: where do I start on this one. I guess the reason why i asked this question was because in my life time i have only meet a very few people that I would consider a lady or a gentleman. I wish i could count myself as one of those few rare people who live the life of the blessed but unfortunetly my breeding and training leave something to be desired. as a woman i strive to be considered a lady. But a lady is really not my style i am way to blunt not politically correct in any way shape or form. I want to have the strength of character to curb my bad side. In truth I think of a lday much like a giesha. she is beautiful. intelligent. sensual but not skanky

Proverbs 31:10-31
Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price [is] far above rubies.
11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.
13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.
14 She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar.
15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.
16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.
17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.
18 She perceiveth that her merchandise [is] good: her candle goeth not out by night.
19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.
20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.
21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household [are] clothed with scarlet.
22 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing [is] silk and purple.
23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.
24 She maketh fine linen, and selleth [it]; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.
25 Strength and honour [are] her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.
26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue [is] the law of kindness.
27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.
28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband [also], and he praiseth her.
29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.
30 Favour [is] deceitful, and beauty [is] vain: [but] a woman [that] feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.
31 Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.
IS it too much that I want to be something so pure. that I want to live a life so blessed. Even though I am not truly christian I do bleiive in doing the right things for the right reasons and I think this above all is what makes a woman a lady. I am prolly saying this all wrong but it will come to me and when it does I will right you for now I am out have fun and dont make to much mess in the house while i am gone kisses

posted by digitalsulis @ 4:54 PM 0 comments

Ahhh... i have finally seen the light, and found the blog!! :) Lexa, good to see that you are here, and greetings sulis... as i make my entrance and take a seat comfortably on the sofa.

Lexa, i couldn't agree with you more, though i would expand to say that both must know his/her place at all times, is self-aware, but more so of his/her surroundings. One must be competent, well rounded and well spoken. There is a certain amount of culture that one must have. I find that i am a bit partial to an air of humility on a powerful or 'great' wo/man, where one would never be able to make another feel inferior since, to the gentleman/lady, everyone is superior to him/her in some way, and in this case the world is his/her teacher.

--- now rereading what you had wrote, Lexa, and what i have written... it seems as though i have basically reitterated the points that you had made, but i will post this anyways so that you all know that i was here. :)
- poma

posted by PoMaBear @ 5:51 PM 0 comments

HEY lady!
Great minds think alike, I was planning on making something like this for a certain other cam we know ;)

A Lady... read Piers Anthony The Blue Adept a very good example there. A lady is refined, polite, capable and in seemingly effortless command. She is able to get others to do what she wishes easily and eagerly yet when needed, can get greasy and accomplish things herself.

A Gentleman.. hmmm tougher. Polite, Dignified, courteous, honerable, able to be quiet, not needing to brag, capable, able to take charge but not needing to do so. James Bond comes to mind. or The Saint.

That is my two bits!
:)
Lexa

posted by Anonymous @ 4:58 PM 0 comments